Maria Chike Benjamin will not be chasing fame; she needs to be recognised for her craft as an actress. From leaving a profession as an Emirates air hostess to changing into a actuality TV character and now pursuing her place in Nollywood, her journey has been considered one of reinvention, self-discovery and resilience. Although actuality TV opened doorways to new alternatives, Maria says she needs audiences to look past the celebrity and respect her expertise, onerous work and dedication to storytelling. In this interview with Ferdinand Ekechukwu, she displays on the tough choices that formed her profession, her father’s affect on her values, the transformative expertise of motherhood, and her dedication to construct a long-lasting legacy in appearing. Excerpts:
You transitioned from an air hostess to a actuality TV star, and now an actress. How has the journey been?
I would say each transition did include its personal problem as a result of I was getting into utterly totally different worlds. Leaving aviation meant strolling away from secure profession to pursue alternatives the place nothing was assured, you might be simply well-known. I would say I didn’t do my analysis correctly by way of leaping into the world of actuality TV. I wasn’t very a lot conscious what the celebrity and I wasn’t chasing fame. Truly essentially the most secret or fairly sacred factor about me is I’m a really non-public individual. So being well-known and being non-public simply don’t go collectively. So, I would say the transition has been good and dangerous; the most important lesson by way of the journey has been believing in myself having moved again to Nigeria since 2021 as an airhostess with Emirates Airlines to being a actuality TV star and now an actress. If any actuality TV alternative got here, I would flip it down like 100%. It’s an excessive amount of of an publicity. I see actuality TV as an open door to the trail to the whole lot that I’m doing at the moment. It formed so many extra alternatives that I’m evolving into.
Can you share with us your first set expertise as an actor, any surprises stepping onto the set?
I would say stepping onto a film set for the primary time it was each thrilling and intimidating. I studied efficiency which was strictly appearing and script writing. I have been in entrance of the cameras. Even some journey in my life after I completed college, you understand l lived in Los Angeles in America for three months and I was going for appearing auditions and stuff like that. The excessive value of dwelling in LA chased me away from LA and I moved again to the UK. I simply went for a little bit quick interval to get appearing jobs and stuff like that and it by no means actually occurred for me. I have been in entrance of the cameras, in entrance of so many auditions. So as a lot as my first ever time being on an precise actual film set that was going to function, it was thrilling but it surely was additionally intimidating. Abroad or when I was in appearing faculty, they might provide you with weeks, months, they might provide you with script forward of time. But Nigerians we do issues utterly totally different. They provide you with a script at the moment and so they count on you to be on set tomorrow morning. Or you might be on set for the primary time and that’s when you will notice your script, all you might be doing is to shortly be taught the script not even going into character. So, it’s very intimidating as a result of it wasn’t what I studied, it wasn’t how I perceived appearing and it was fairly difficult to simply come on set and have to shortly simply learn script after which they count on you to simply be in character right away. I’m like wait, I’m supposed to learn this script proper now? And you might be supposed to movie me? I want I was given my script weeks prematurely to submerge into this character, to personal my character, to be that character, to come on set and provides a special kind of normal appearing. I haven’t been in a variety of motion pictures on this trade in any trade. I have simply been in few. But I do hope that sometime the movie trade in Nigeria or Africa would truly change.
What are your expectations coming into mainstream appearing and what ought to viewers count on from you quickly?
Stepping into mainstream appearing I do count on myself to continue to grow as a result of I do consider we continue to grow. I’m not chasing fast success or just making an attempt to be acknowledged. I’m targeted on constructing a profession that’s rooted in onerous work, consistency, and nice storytelling. I need individuals to look past my actuality TV journey and see me as an actress who’s dedicated to her craft I’m excited as nicely to tackle difficult roles that may push me exterior of my consolation zone; issues that I would by no means think about that myself or character would give you the option to obtain. Whether its drama, romance, motion or one thing utterly surprising. I need each character that I play to go away an impression and join with audiences in significant methods. As for what viewers can count on, I do consider that is just the start. And if that is my path in life, God’s keen; I would positively let him take management of the place this appearing takes me. ‘Properties of the Gods’, which is the most recent film that I featured, I’m extremely proud to be part of the movie that tells such an essential story. But there’s a lot extra to come.
What is one factor about your artistic prowess that your followers and trade haven’t seen but?
I assume individuals have solely seen a small a part of me as a result of I haven’t achieved a lot. So, they’ve seen a really small a part of what I’m able to doing. I love difficult myself emotionally and I can’t wait for audiences to see the depth and vary I know that I have when it comes to appearing. Beyond appearing as nicely, I’m additionally passionate storyteller. In the longer term I would additionally love to be creating initiatives from floor, not simply to be an actress. I do pray sooner or later to divert into being a producer; producing much more collection and flicks of my very own and ultimately assist deliver genuine African tales to life. I’m nonetheless at the start of this journey like I stated I haven’t been in a lot motion pictures and that’s what excites me essentially the most. And I know there are such a lot of layers of me that audiences haven’t met but and I consider the perfect model of Maria, creatively, continues to be forward of us.
Can you stroll us by way of your background – your loved ones, early years, and childhood reminiscence that stands out?
I was born to a Nigerian father, an Igbo man, and an Austrian mum. I’m considered one of three sisters, and two brothers, from a household of 5. I’m the second to the final. And I have two step siblings as nicely. I grew up most of my early years partly in Nigeria and partly within the UK. But we did go to Austria very often each different summer time in my early years. We had been at all times shifting round quite a bit. My dad, a really cultural and conventional Igbo man, is late now. I do keep in mind my mum could be within the kitchen with the helps and I would even have my very own pot within the kitchen subsequent to her. Whatever she places within the pot I would put in my pot. That was virtually how I learnt how to even cook dinner conventional meals at a really younger age as nicely. My dad was very strict, I wasn’t allowed to occasion. We had been solely allowed to exit with our dad or mum and that was virtually nearly each weekend, some Saturdays, Sundays. But in the course of the week, it was all faculty, after which again at dwelling. I assume rising up from a really younger age, that type of restriction stayed with me that when I grew to become an grownup, dwelling on my own I grew to become such a loner, I didn’t like to exit.
You communicate fondly of your dad, what was it about him you cherish and a lot keep in mind?
My dad instilled a variety of onerous work. Every weekend we might all have chores and in case your chores usually are not achieved prior to breakfast, you aren’t going to eat breakfast. That was how disciplined my dad was. I keep in mind in the course of the festive intervals when all of the village dancers would come to our home, I would dance with them. My dad instilled a variety of my Igbo tradition. He was a really loving father and a fantastic husband. And while you even ask who I am, I would say ‘I’m my father’s daughter’. That’s very true of me. I know at a really younger age you couldn’t simply ask for something, I had to work for something that I wished to get from my dad, be it something you don’t ask, you have got to discount. We had been very nicely to do I would say that. But he didn’t let that affect our mentality.
How would you describe your background affect your values and outlook on life?
Looking again, I assume my upbringing gave me the arrogance to adapt to totally different atmosphere and to give you the option to chase alternatives with out shedding sight of who I am whether or not as a cabin crew or actuality TV character and even an actress. I really feel like if I was totally Nigerian, and didn’t have the chance to stay overseas, I most likely, at 17, could be in my father’s home ready on his month-to-month allowance and all of that. I have labored two jobs while going to college simply because I wanted to make funds to no matter my life’s stage on the time was. It has formed me to be onerous working however been very resilient. I would give that honour to my dad. I imply he at all times wished me to be a lawyer again in school days in Manchester, within the United Kingdom. But I didn’t like legislation and form of failed some years and went to do what I truly cherished. . I went to a efficiency faculty in Salford University. And he was fairly upset however we squashed issues afterwards.
How has motherhood reshaped your routine, perceived by the general public eye?
Motherhood has positively modified me in essentially the most stunning means ever; modified me quite a bit by way of my mind-set, by way of endurance, oh my God! I was a really impatient human being prior to being a mum. I’m married. It has given my life a totally totally different sense of function. And it has additionally made me a way more intentional individual in the whole lot I do, each choice I make now personally or professionally. Becoming a mum didn’t gradual me down in any respect. It simply gave me a deeper motive to succeed. It’s form of made with my youngsters in thoughts. I’m a mom of two I’m in a special part of my life. Motherhood has additionally modified me in the way in which that I navigate the general public eye. I’m far more aware of what I enable to be shared.
Where do you draw the road between what you share together with your thousands and thousands of followers and what you retain strictly non-public?
There has to be a very essential stability. It’s one thing I have change into far more intentional about over time. At the identical time, I have learnt that it’s not the whole lot that has to be shared. Some of essentially the most significant a part of my life deserves to be protected. So, sure typically followers might be very overwhelming of their calls for. I assume with my age and my progress or my understanding of the trade, I have learnt it’s not the whole lot that has to be shared. I selected to share moments that encourage, entertain or enable individuals to genuinely join with me.
